Honouring One's Promise

Are you always in conflict within your own self? Do you desire something and you get something else? Even if you get what you desire...you are never happy with that thing? Do you feel you always are surrounded with wrong people? Do you feel you are always complaining in life? Have you ever asked yourself these questions? Have you gone beyond blaming your parents, teachers, society and delve within your own self asking why am I in this situation?

Once you start asking these questions, there will be lot of things that come up, among all these revelations, I want to discuss here one such revelations which is Not Honouring Oneself. 

You would remember things you have promised to others in the past which you have never been able to fulfill. Either because you never intended to fulfill those promises or you got so busy with your other priorities that you never had that time to fulfill the promises you made to other people. You will also be reminded of the promises you made to yourself but never honoured them every now and then by the Universe.

You may think, “Oh, well it was just a promise”. Well, not for the Universe. Universe is full of cobwebs of energies ...energies of our words, our thoughts, our actions. The minute your promises are not honoured ...BOOM!!!

When you make a promise to others or to your self saying, “I promise I’ll never do it again.” Or “I’ll finish this work before the end of this year.” Or “I promise to be present at this time.” Or “I have made a particular resolution for this year” and when you ask yourself at the end of the year “Oh, I just make these resolution every year...never implement them.” – Well, there’s your broken promise.

Right from your birth up until now how many such promises you have broken? How many promises you have never even given a second thought to? How many promises you have made an effort to honour?

More the cobwebs in the Universe under your name...more the confusion, more you will not be satisfied within yourself, more you will get betrayals in life, more people will cheat on you, more you will come across losses, more you would get into situations and meet people with whom you would feel lost, you would always feel you don’t belong here or you deserve better.

Lot of religion, lot of masters, gurus, and learned historians have said that 2012 will be the end of this earth. I believe year 2012 is the end of all the lies, all the betrayals everyone is going through. There’s a lot of change that is going to take place in our personal lives in this year and next year...you will be forced to delve within yourself. More you resistant, more dramas you will face in your life until you look within yourself. You want to be with the universe, you want to manifest all the things you desire, you want to get that perfect life ... well, universe will give that to you but, you need to be clear what you want, you need to be very careful not to promise anything you have no intention of honouring it – whether to others or to your own self.

This is what I am going to do to dissolve my cobwebs:

  

1) Firstly, I am going to look back at all the promises I have made in my past to others as well as to myself which I have not honoured.

2) After that, I am going to evaluate which of those promises I can still honour. Start honouring them one by one. And, if I can’t honour them I am going to ask forgiveness for breaking those promises either to that particular person or to myself or to the universe.

3) Be careful, while I make any promise to anyone or to myself. Think 10 times whether I will be able to fulfill those promises. Even if I were to give anyone any promise, I would see to it that I would do everything in my power to keep that promise.

4) Don’t get tempted to make any promises as an easy way out. One can always think about a promise and get back on it.

You want to gain clarity as to what do you want from life or why life’s such a mess or why you have so many difficulties honouring promises -  

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DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, Past Life Regression Therapist; Colour & Aura Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)

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