Wise Elder

It is very important for any family to have one elder who is wise. But, how does one become wise? How is wisdom acquired?

Some will say, wisdom is acquired through experience, through failures, through facing challenges, etc.

We @FUDOL Therapies feel that wisdom is acquired when one understands the difference between Self - Respect and Ego. Where we develop the vision to identify whether a particular thought, word and action has come out of EGO or out of SELF RESPECT.

EGO is where you want to put the other person down at any cost, Ego is where no matter what you are losing... whether it is loss of a relationship, loss of peace of mind but you want things your way, EGO is where you always think of a win -lose situation, EGO makes you so blind that you refrain from looking at other person's pain, hurt and cry. EGO stems out of Fear.

SELF RESPECT is when you honour your existence and also honour others existence. Self Respect is where you know how much it is important to respect the other person as everyone wants to be respected and appreciated, where the relationship, peace of mind, healing your close ones wounds  will be more important than controlling the other person & feeling of competition you have against that person, Self - Respect is where one always thinks of a win - win situation, Self Respect stems out of Love.

Once a person functions out of Self Respect - Wisdom starts dawning, then resolving conflicts become easy and quick as you are resolving from a perspective of Win - Win Situation.

It is very important to have an Elder in the family who is Wise...sad is the plight of a family where there are no wise elders. Because few people of the family are bound to feel injustice, unfair, and hurt. It happens especially when:

a) Parent get biased towards any one of their children (if they have more than one) thus, increasing the sibling rivalry between the siblings, and will create grudge against the parent.

b) In Laws always taking their son's side even if they know that he is doing wrong to the daughter - in -law... just making the daughter - in - law feel isolated and thus, creating gap in the relationships.

c) One spouse not able to leave his/her stubbornness and because of Ego, letting everything go in drain...and always expecting the other person to compromise ... resulting in curses, hurt, and a wounded person.

d) There is lack of support for the weaker member of the family and the stronger members keep criticizing and taunting the person for being weak. Thus, corrupting the roots of the family and the repercussions will be felt for generations to come.

Become wise by knowing yourself, by knowing your limits  so that you can also know others limit. 

Become wise by always being aware: Am I taking this decision out of Ego or Self Respect?

Become wise by always accepting what you are feeling which will make it easier for you to accept other person's feelings in your family.

Become wise by apologizing to a younger member of your family - if you think you have done wrong.

Become wise by clearing your roots and giving justice to each and every member of your family... if you have been given a family - you also have been given the strength to uplift your family materially, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

Darsha Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counselor; Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Angel Therapist, Graphologist, Crystal Advisor)


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SOUL FAMILY

It is the second part of the blog Family Politics...

 http://fillingupthedash-esoflife.blogspot.in/2015/07/family-politics.html

Most of the families have more or less become like the POLITICAL Houses wherein there is manipulation, ego, condemnation, demeaning each other, not standing up for what is right but sticking to people and things that are advantageous to oneself rather than the whole family. Many times as each one of us is carrying our baggage and perception that we aren't able to understand our own near and dear ones. Lot of times, the fear of what people will say, fear of losing one's social credibility is so high that you would treat family members who are considered 'to be not doing well materialistically' badly.

So what do we do when we need the energy of love, warmth, comfort, strength and power... when we are on our lowest ladder on the earth... We invoke our SOUL FAMILY...

Just by asking god/universe, "I need my soul family - please send my soul family member who could help me and support me to rise higher spiritually, mentally and emotionally in this crisis"

BOOM!!! Universe will start sending you members of your SOUL Family.

Your soul family members could be some of your family member who will suddenly turn kind and warmth, a member of the extended family, business partner, colleague, group of friends, associated, doctor, psychotherapist, a set of complete strangers. They may not come together ...they will come one by one to support you in the way they are capable and comfortable. They will give you lot of love and strength which needs to be given to a family member in crisis and pull you up and guide you to put yourself back on your soul's path.

Our soul family have also taken birth as human beings on this earth with a pact among each other that whenever anyone member requires support - wherever each of them is located on the earth - they will come and support that one member. They may or may not continue to stay in your life after the crisis is resolved.

SOUL FAMILY was formed and send on earth so that...

As family they can help each other to rise higher...by helping each other with all the materialistic challenges of the earth, supporting each other in emotional lows, protect members when any one of them is harmed spiritually, come together to form a new world order, etc.

So, don't worry if your own family on the earth isn't supportive or your spouse's family which is also socially your family isn't supportive towards you in your crisis - You still have one family which will never fail you, disappoint you and you can always count on it - Your SOUL FAMILY.

Darsha Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counselor; Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Angel Therapist, Graphologist, Crystal Advisor)


We Do Online & Phone Counseling 
www.fudoltherapies.com, 
+(91) 9869660362
contact@fudoltherapies.com

Past Life Regression Therapy

Past Life Regression Therapy a hogwash? a reality? maybe? could be? possible?

Many clients when they see their past life, they feel, they might be just imagining or they might be just imitating a movie scene...and when asked: Why only a particular set of images or scenes come through in your mind? Why only few specific people or specific names only come under trance... that's when they say, 'hmmmmmm...ya it makes sense'. After they experience results they are fully convinced.

Today, through this blog I am going to emphasis the importance of this intense and a very powerful therapy to release all the negative emotions from one's psyche and soul's aura for a stuck or difficult situation or towards a person you hate so much.

Nowadays, we watch (esp. in India) TV serials which contains black magic, serpents, witches, etc. This idea is given to the writer and if it manifested in the reality - it means that somewhere these negative beings do exist in our multiversity - infinite universe. Now, this negativity is being projected on a large scale via TV serials, movies, shows, etc. as our Earth's negativity is increasing by 10x folds and thus, getting us more attracted to these negativity.

Similarly words like Re - incarnation, Past Life, Soul Mates, Angels, Forgiveness, Letting Go:  if they are manifested in our thoughts, ideas, words, experiences, and dreams - somewhere in our multiversity - infinite universe it is a reality. Thus, the idea of past life regression therapy was a divine way of being aware of ones root causes of the karma's one is facing in this current life so that it can help one reduce their karmas in this current life and let one's soul go on to a higher plane of existence.

Will make it simple by giving you an example:

Sam, 26 year old boy is filled with anger, hurt, feeling of betrayal, fear of authority, regrets, etc. When he comes to a past life regression therapist it is revealed that his father, Suresh, used to physically abuse him till the age of 22 years till he decided to move on to a different city for education. Though, he had moved on physically from his father but, mentally, spiritually and emotionally he was still a child who couldn't believe that his father who was supposed to protect him was beating him up daily.

Sam and the Past Life Regression Therapist thus started the journey of Past Lives of Sam,

- First he was taken into his current life (age regression), then to all his past lives where SAM sees all the lives where he and his father are involved and are harming each other in some way or the other... then finally SAM reaches a life where it all started with his father Suresh' soul.

- With therapist guidance and expertise SAM is slowly able to intertwine the ebb he has made with his 'current' father's soul lifetime after lifetime. Learning the lesson in each lifetime, integrating the lessons, letting go and forgiving and asking forgiveness from his father's soul.

- SAM thus realizes that - though in this birth Suresh is his father but, both of them knew each other from lifetimes hence, realizing that he is here dealing with a soul not his 'father' who has to protect him.

- By letting go of his negative emotions against Suresh's soul - he is breaking the vicious cycle of hatred. In turn, SAM stops to attract any kind of negative energy from his 'father' of current life and in all the future lifetimes from Suresh's soul.

FUDOL Therapies invite you to try this intense and a very powerful technique of Past Life Regression that has passed to us from the Divine to make our growth and progress in our earthly world faster and also so that we can support others around us to evolve faster.         

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta

(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)

We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 

www.fudoltherapies.com,    +(91) 9869660362

contact@fudoltherapies.com   

Kalyug: Challenge: Creating A Baby

According to many of our religion Kalyug has started. What is Kalyug? Is it something to be afraid of? Will everything bad happen in Kalyug?

According to FUDOL Therapies, Kalyug means, "A phase where an opportunity is given by the Universe to resolve and absolve all our past karmas which our souls has been carrying with it. Thus, giving us a chance to start balancing our Karmas."

There are many challenges in today's world and in areas which never were thought would create problems. One of the challenges that has prominently increased is: "Couples not able to conceive a child. A decade back the act of conceiving a child was natural and a normal process. Now, suddenly it has become the biggest challenge in many couple's life.

Vicious Cycle 1

Mostly, we have seen that Physical Intimacy between couple's have gone low due to various stressors. Creating a vacuum in Emotional - Mental - Spiritual areas as well. Many couples walk on different paths after marriage and lose their connections due to work pressure, immediate family life, health issues, etc. Creating a vicious cycle of anger, distrust and disconnection - further pushing the child away to come into your family orbit.

Vicious Cycle 2  

Mostly, when a couples go to a gynac and gets their test done - they find out either low sperm count, low sperm quality or low AMH (low egg count in females) - which generates fear in couples - thus, increasing the stress level - which in turn does not allow medicines to work effectively.

We @FUDOL have seen a lot of miracles happening by breaking this above vicious cycles and overcoming many other challenges which a couple's face. But, the pre - requisite for a miracle to occur is:

Both Husband and Wife should be ready to work towards having a baby, creating a baby should be their top priority.

Here, are few tips for the couples to check where the actual problem area lies:

a) Check your stress level in areas like Marriage, Personal, Work and Immediate Family Life.

1 (No Stress).............................................................................................................5 (High Stress)

b) Check if there is any kind of Anger, Hatred, Guilt, Regret shimmering inside you? And for whom?

c) Which area/needs of your relationship with your spouse is incomplete?

d) What are the lessons you both need to learn from the challenge you face as a couple - On a Personal Level as well as Relationship Level?

We @FUDOL Therapies are committed to Support you in the whole process right from Balancing the Couple's Karmas before pregnancy happens - Inviting the baby in the Family Orbit - During Pregnancy - Post Pregnancy with the expertise, different modalities we use and last but not the least the human touch we provide along with the professionalism - will make a couple's journey to create their own baby beautiful and memorable.  


DARSHA Gandhi Mehta

(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We Do Online & Phone Counseling

www.fudoltherapies.com ,       +(91) 9869660362  

contact@fudoltherapies.com   

    

Surrender

When Life Hits You Hard,

 Reality Comes To Bite You,
 No Distractions Can Make You Happy,
 You Are Not Able To See A Silver Lining Behind A Dark Cloud,
 That's When You Need To Learn...  The Art of Surrendering To The Supreme.    

Many times, we feel our life was not supposed to be the way it is right now.
Maybe, we have made few incorrect choices.
In spite of stretching ourselves to make efforts we aren't able to succeed.
Every ways we move we find a road block ahead.

Probably, we are not able to surrender our innate desire so that the Universe can work on it.

Let us see how we can make the Art of Surrendering easy & simple:

1) Focus On What is Working For You:

 If life/destiny/karmas have made you sacrifice few very "important" aspects of your life - it has sure shot given you few things in life wherein, your soul can take a huge leap in its growth. Figure those things out. Start working on it. Focus on it. Nurture it. Your soul recognizes it...your ego needs to now let go the stubbornness of expecting the returns at any cost.

In Disguise, It will be your Opportunity to Grow out of an Ordinary Life to an Extra - Ordinary Life.

2) Detach:

Divert your energy which goes into Expecting Results ---- (into) Nurturing your Physical - Emotional - Mental - Spiritual Self. Keep high aspirations for yourself. (Ambition might take you to Win - Lose Situation wherein, Aspirations will always be Win - Win Situations). Your aspirations will not only help you grow and reach your potential but will also support others around you to grow and reach their potential.

High Aspirations will always Result in Healing Yourself, Others and has the Potential to Heal the World.

3) Surrender all the Dishonoring of Self:

When you are stuck at life issue - Life throws at you an excellent opportunity to work on your fears, your rigid belief system, to challenge your self - doubt, to be bold enough to create your own path and follow it.

Honor your Soul with Strength to Live a Life of Valor.

4) Forgive Yourself:

Forgive yourself for not able to achieve your desired goals - it does not make you a "loser". This is just your story. This is just your soul's journey. Be proud to have made that effort. Now, Surrender. Forgive Yourself. No sacrifice goes unnoticed by the Universe. No effort goes waste.

Surrender Yourself & Live Life Fully Without Expectations - For the Soul to Reach its Potential.    

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta

(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)

We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 

www.fudoltherapies.com

+(91) 9869660362

contact@fudoltherapies.com