Sunday, October 28, 2018

Negative Emotional Poking






We have a tendency to believe that if a major event like accident, death in the family, illness in the family, etc. are the only main stressors of life. I say, the main stressors of our life are the small daily negative emotional poking which we all go through. While, we all juggle through different roles in life and try to fulfill everyone's expectations - we also unknowingly take up the role of the victim by going through the daily negative emotional poking which happens in our immediate environment. 

This Negative Emotional Poking is not acceptable in our society as a problem and we often hear our well wishers saying that those are 'small things', 'it's natural', 'hote rehta hai', etc. These Daily Negative Emotional Poking mostly comes from our close ones, people with whom we stay in the same house, our relatives, often from our friends, our employees, our colleague, etc.

Few of those Daily Emotional Poking can be:
Continuous Taunting, Critical of Every Small Thing You Do, Withdrawing & Not Expressing, Blaming You for Everything, Complaining on Every Issue, Not Acknowledging Your Efforts, etc.

And I am sure all of us have gone through these daily negative emotional poking and felt - "Maybe I am not good enough," "Let me put in more efforts," "I can't make anyone happy," etc. We form many habits like Binge Eating, Any kinds of Addiction including shopping, social media, eating chocolates, eating junk foods, etc.

Instead, what we require is Daily Dose of Self - Uplifting Behavior from these daily Negative Emotional Poking. Few Tips how to remove these daily Negative Emotional Poking from your system or we say AURA - Our Energetic Field:
  
1) Removal of Anger:

These daily Negative Emotional Poking accumulates a lot of anger in us on a daily basis against others and against our own self. Daily Journaling/Writing a Dairy and taking account of your emotions will help you in removing your day to day anger and will clear our emotional cloud.

2) Change Your Perspective:

Change Your Perspective from,

"No one is Happy with Me " to  "I Only have to be Happy with Myself,"
"I am Sole Responsible for the House" to "Everyone Needs to Participate in Household Chores,"
"When Will My Life Change" to "What Can I Do To Change My Life,"
"I have So Many Problems" to "What Are The Solutions Of My Problems."

3) Honor Your Initial Promise:

Your Initial Soul Promise to yourself was to take care of yourself, to love yourself and reach your highest potential in whatever you do. Are you honoring your initial promise?
Make a list of all the things which will help you to honor your initial promise. It could be exercising daily to going for a vacation which you longed for. 

4) Uplift Yourself:

Daily Uplift yourself by spending 2 minutes in front of the mirror - smiling at yourself, tell yourself how beautiful you are, admire yourself, tell yourself, "I Love You."

Book an appointment with us if you want to implement this above 4 points effectively wherein, we will help you remove all the blockages, patterns, negative thought process from the roots and support you in your journey of Self - Love.

Darsha Gandhi Mehta
Psychologist, Therapist & A Mystic
contact@fudoltherapies.com
Mob/Whtsapp: +(91)9869660362
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Thursday, March 29, 2018

Soul Career/Soul Mate


                                             
                   

As the portals of Soul Career are opening, earthlings on the earth are receiving many messages to follow their Soul Career.

Energy from the portal of Soul Career is making the earthlings restless in their current professions, they are not able to concentrate, succeed in their profession/business/service which was their choice in different time, place and  for different reason. As the energies from various portals are opening and entering the Earth, the energy of the earthlings are shifting faster than ever. These energies are nudging the earthlings in gentle but firm ways to start their spiritual path in the form of Soul Career, or with their Soul Groups or Soul Mates quickly to balance out the energies on the earth.

As the earthlings evolve intellectually, spiritually and emotionally - they develop their invisible senses of clairaudience, claircognizance, clairvoyance, etc. These senses allow the messages from one's guardian angel, higher self to be more visible/audible. Many times, these messages goes against whatever the earthlings are conditioned on the earth by their elders, and goes beyond the logic of societal rules and regulation. More we follow the messages from our angels, subconscious mind, our inner child or higher self, more one will start living a life of peace, contentment, wisdom and fulfillment.
 Soul Career is that career which the soul wants to develop in this lifetime and is a part of his/her mission on the earth.

Similarly, many Soul Mates are entering one's life either for Karmic Settlements, as Earth Angels, as Business Partners, Therapist, Healers, etc. Earthlings are attracting many Soul Mates whom they will feel attracted to emotionally, spiritually, physically, and intellectually.

'You can have an excellent conversation with someone who has just entered in your life like you know that person for long time. You can just fall in love with a person whom you have just met or you know, but suddenly you feel that intense love for that person, you just feel like helping and supporting a start up, a stranger in his/her struggles of life'.

Universe has its own laws and it does not understand the laws made by various societies on the earth...it goes beyond caste, religion, creed, age, etc. If a Soul Mate or a Soul Career is coming your way - it's never a wrong timing...

Honor, Respect and Be Thankful to that new Soul Mates/ Soul Careers entering your life. Cherish them in your life in whichever ways you can resonate  with these Soul Mates/Soul Careers. As Universe is teaching you lessons in:
1) Living in Presence
2) Change & Uncertainty Being Inevitable
3) Cherish What is Given
4) Lessons of Unconditional Love & Acceptance towards Self & Others.
5) Lessons of Forgiveness
6) Lessons of Karmas

Be ready to question Negative Soul Characteristics like Ego, Hate, Manipulation, Possessiveness, Jealousy, Obsession, Being Controlling, Insecurities, etc... so that you are shown the path of Freedom, Love and Respect by these new energies coming in from different portals.

Loads of Love! Light! Laughter! to One & All



DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 
www.fudoltherapies.com
+(91) 9869660362
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Saturday, December 2, 2017

TOGETHERNESS





From challenges in relationship like: partners not paying attention, not listening; anger issues; constant criticizing, condemning each other; fighting a lot; issues in sharing finance; emotional abuse towards each other by playing mind games, manipulating; infidelity; issues in physical attraction, issues in their intimate life; infertility, stress due to in - laws and other external environment; emotional - physical estrangement towards each other and the likes.

We @FUDOL have now handled a gamut of relationship challenges. One thing common about all our couple client is their stubbornness to fight all the challenges to be together, their faith in the idea of TOGETHERNESS.

We usually keep hearing from our elders that, "Current generation lacks the quality of tolerance."

We @FUDOL say, "Today's generation is an aware lot of young adults who knows that unnecessary compromises, putting one's self - identity and one's self worth aside for a relationship is not healthy and not a long term option for themselves and for their partner."

We @FUDOL have observed that both the partners are willing to work towards Being Together: by opening up their hearts to changing themselves, taking support from a marriage counselors, overcoming their personal baggage for Being Together.

It is amazing to watch how 2 people in a relationship fight, cry, get hurt...but when it comes to the point of separation...They fight for each other, they cry for each other, they want to stretch an extra mile to resolve their own internal and external conflicts to save their relationship.

@FUDOL Therapies we SALUTE all our couple clients for restoring faith in the idea of a relationship by their faith in their own TOGETHERNESS, for having the attitude of: "NO MATTER WHAT...WE WILL BE TOGETHER."

Every story of TOGETHERNESS we have supported @FUDOL is beautiful and special to our hearts.

We @FUDOL also promise to all you couples, no matter what the challenge you are currently facing ... we will support you, be your sounding board, be the pillar of strength you require - in your fight to be TOGETHER.

 Cheers!!! To Being Together!!!

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 
www.fudoltherapies.com
+(91) 9869660362

contact@fudoltherapies.com   

Thursday, August 24, 2017

Wise Elder





It is very important for any family to have one elder who is wise. But, how does one become wise? How is wisdom acquired?

Some will say, wisdom is acquired through experience, through failures, through facing challenges, etc.

We @FUDOL Therapies feel that wisdom is acquired when one understands the difference between Self - Respect and Ego. Where we develop the vision to identify whether a particular thought, word and action has come out of EGO or out of SELF RESPECT.

EGO is where you want to put the other person down at any cost, Ego is where no matter what you are losing... whether it is loss of a relationship, loss of peace of mind but you want things your way, EGO is where you always think of a win -lose situation, EGO makes you so blind that you refrain from looking at other person's pain, hurt and cry. EGO stems out of Fear.

SELF RESPECT is when you honour your existence and also honour others existence. Self Respect is where you know how much it is important to respect the other person as everyone wants to be respected and appreciated, where the relationship, peace of mind, healing your close ones wounds  will be more important than controlling the other person & feeling of competition you have against that person, Self - Respect is where one always thinks of a win - win situation, Self Respect stems out of Love.


Once a person functions out of Self Respect - Wisdom starts dawning, then resolving conflicts become easy and quick as you are resolving from a perspective of Win - Win Situation.

It is very important to have an Elder in the family who is Wise...sad is the plight of a family where there are no wise elders. Because few people of the family are bound to feel injustice, unfair, and hurt. It happens especially when:

a) Parent get biased towards any one of their children (if they have more than one) thus, increasing the sibling rivalry between the siblings, and will create grudge against the parent.

b) In Laws always taking their son's side even if they know that he is doing wrong to the daughter - in -law... just making the daughter - in - law feel isolated and thus, creating gap in the relationships.

c) One spouse not able to leave his/her stubbornness and because of Ego, letting everything go in drain...and always expecting the other person to compromise ... resulting in curses, hurt, and a wounded person.

d) There is lack of support for the weaker member of the family and the stronger members keep criticizing and taunting the person for being weak. Thus, corrupting the roots of the family and the repercussions will be felt for generations to come.


Become wise by knowing yourself, by knowing your limits  so that you can also know others limit. 

Become wise by always being aware: Am I taking this decision out of Ego or Self Respect?

Become wise by always accepting what you are feeling which will make it easier for you to accept other person's feelings in your family.

Become wise by apologizing to a younger member of your family - if you think you have done wrong.

Become wise by clearing your roots and giving justice to each and every member of your family... if you have been given a family - you also have been given the strength to uplift your family materially, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.


Darsha Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counselor; Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Angel Therapist, Graphologist, Crystal Advisor)


We Do Online & Phone Counseling 
www.fudoltherapies.com, 
+(91) 9869660362
contact@fudoltherapies.com

Friday, May 12, 2017

SOUL FAMILY

It is the second part of the blog Family Politics...
 http://fillingupthedash-esoflife.blogspot.in/2015/07/family-politics.html

Most of the families have more or less become like the POLITICAL Houses wherein there is manipulation, ego, condemnation, demeaning each other, not standing up for what is right but sticking to people and things that are advantageous to oneself rather than the whole family. Many times as each one of us is carrying our baggage and perception that we aren't able to understand our own near and dear ones. Lot of times, the fear of what people will say, fear of losing one's social credibility is so high that you would treat family members who are considered 'to be not doing well materialistically' badly.

So what do we do when we need the energy of love, warmth, comfort, strength and power... when we are on our lowest ladder on the earth... We invoke our SOUL FAMILY...

Just by asking god/universe, "I need my soul family - please send my soul family member who could help me and support me to rise higher spiritually, mentally and emotionally in this crisis"


BOOM!!! Universe will start sending you members of your SOUL Family.


Your soul family members could be some of your family member who will suddenly turn kind and warmth, a member of the extended family, business partner, colleague, group of friends, associated, doctor, psychotherapist, a set of complete strangers. They may not come together ...they will come one by one to support you in the way they are capable and comfortable. They will give you lot of love and strength which needs to be given to a family member in crisis and pull you up and guide you to put yourself back on your soul's path.

Our soul family have also taken birth as human beings on this earth with a pact among each other that whenever anyone member requires support - wherever each of them is located on the earth - they will come and support that one member. They may or may not continue to stay in your life after the crisis is resolved.

SOUL FAMILY was formed and send on earth so that...

As family they can help each other to rise higher...by helping each other with all the materialistic challenges of the earth, supporting each other in emotional lows, protect members when any one of them is harmed spiritually, come together to form a new world order, etc.

So, don't worry if your own family on the earth isn't supportive or your spouse's family which is also socially your family isn't supportive towards you in your crisis - You still have one family which will never fail you, disappoint you and you can always count on it - Your SOUL FAMILY.

Darsha Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counselor; Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Angel Therapist, Graphologist, Crystal Advisor)


We Do Online & Phone Counseling 
www.fudoltherapies.com, 
+(91) 9869660362
contact@fudoltherapies.com

Monday, March 13, 2017

Past Life Regression Therapy





Past Life Regression Therapy a hogwash? a reality? maybe? could be? possible?

Many clients when they see their past life, they feel, they might be just imagining or they might be just imitating a movie scene...and when asked: Why only a particular set of images or scenes come through in your mind? Why only few specific people or specific names only come under trance... that's when they say, 'hmmmmmm...ya it makes sense'. After they experience results they are fully convinced.

Today, through this blog I am going to emphasis the importance of this intense and a very powerful therapy to release all the negative emotions from one's psyche and soul's aura for a stuck or difficult situation or towards a person you hate so much.

Nowadays, we watch (esp. in India) TV serials which contains black magic, serpents, witches, etc. This idea is given to the writer and if it manifested in the reality - it means that somewhere these negative beings do exist in our multiversity - infinite universe. Now, this negativity is being projected on a large scale via TV serials, movies, shows, etc. as our Earth's negativity is increasing by 10x folds and thus, getting us more attracted to these negativity.

Similarly words like Re - incarnation, Past Life, Soul Mates, Angels, Forgiveness, Letting Go:  if they are manifested in our thoughts, ideas, words, experiences, and dreams - somewhere in our multiversity - infinite universe it is a reality. Thus, the idea of past life regression therapy was a divine way of being aware of ones root causes of the karma's one is facing in this current life so that it can help one reduce their karmas in this current life and let one's soul go on to a higher plane of existence.
Will make it simple by giving you an example:
Sam, 26 year old boy is filled with anger, hurt, feeling of betrayal, fear of authority, regrets, etc. When he comes to a past life regression therapist it is revealed that his father, Suresh, used to physically abuse him till the age of 22 years till he decided to move on to a different city for education. Though, he had moved on physically from his father but, mentally, spiritually and emotionally he was still a child who couldn't believe that his father who was supposed to protect him was beating him up daily.

Sam and the Past Life Regression Therapist thus started the journey of Past Lives of Sam,

- First he was taken into his current life (age regression), then to all his past lives where SAM sees all the lives where he and his father are involved and are harming each other in some way or the other... then finally SAM reaches a life where it all started with his father Suresh' soul.
- With therapist guidance and expertise SAM is slowly able to intertwine the ebb he has made with his 'current' father's soul lifetime after lifetime. Learning the lesson in each lifetime, integrating the lessons, letting go and forgiving and asking forgiveness from his father's soul.

- SAM thus realizes that - though in this birth Suresh is his father but, both of them knew each other from lifetimes hence, realizing that he is here dealing with a soul not his 'father' who has to protect him.

- By letting go of his negative emotions against Suresh's soul - he is breaking the vicious cycle of hatred. In turn, SAM stops to attract any kind of negative energy from his 'father' of current life and in all the future lifetimes from Suresh's soul.

FUDOL Therapies invite you to try this intense and a very powerful technique of Past Life Regression that has passed to us from the Divine to make our growth and progress in our earthly world faster and also so that we can support others around us to evolve faster.         

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 
www.fudoltherapies.com,    +(91) 9869660362

contact@fudoltherapies.com   

Monday, September 26, 2016

Kalyug: Challenge: Creating A Baby


According to many of our religion Kalyug has started. What is Kalyug? Is it something to be afraid of? Will everything bad happen in Kalyug?
According to FUDOL Therapies, Kalyug means, "A phase where an opportunity is given by the Universe to resolve and absolve all our past karmas which our souls has been carrying with it. Thus, giving us a chance to start balancing our Karmas."

There are many challenges in today's world and in areas which never were thought would create problems. One of the challenges that has prominently increased is: "Couples not able to conceive a child. A decade back the act of conceiving a child was natural and a normal process. Now, suddenly it has become the biggest challenge in many couple's life.
Vicious Cycle 1

Mostly, we have seen that Physical Intimacy between couple's have gone low due to various stressors. Creating a vacuum in Emotional - Mental - Spiritual areas as well. Many couples walk on different paths after marriage and lose their connections due to work pressure, immediate family life, health issues, etc. Creating a vicious cycle of anger, distrust and disconnection - further pushing the child away to come into your family orbit.
Vicious Cycle 2  

Mostly, when a couples go to a gynac and gets their test done - they find out either low sperm count, low sperm quality or low AMH (low egg count in females) - which generates fear in couples - thus, increasing the stress level - which in turn does not allow medicines to work effectively.
We @FUDOL have seen a lot of miracles happening by breaking this above vicious cycles and overcoming many other challenges which a couple's face. But, the pre - requisite for a miracle to occur is:

Both Husband and Wife should be ready to work towards having a baby, creating a baby should be their top priority.
Here, are few tips for the couples to check where the actual problem area lies:

a) Check your stress level in areas like Marriage, Personal, Work and Immediate Family Life.
1 (No Stress).............................................................................................................5 (High Stress)

b) Check if there is any kind of Anger, Hatred, Guilt, Regret shimmering inside you? And for whom?
c) Which area/needs of your relationship with your spouse is incomplete?

d) What are the lessons you both need to learn from the challenge you face as a couple - On a Personal Level as well as Relationship Level?
We @FUDOL Therapies are committed to Support you in the whole process right from Balancing the Couple's Karmas before pregnancy happens - Inviting the baby in the Family Orbit - During Pregnancy - Post Pregnancy with the expertise, different modalities we use and last but not the least the human touch we provide along with the professionalism - will make a couple's journey to create their own baby beautiful and memorable.  


DARSHA Gandhi Mehta

(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We Do Online & Phone Counseling
www.fudoltherapies.com ,       +(91) 9869660362  
contact@fudoltherapies.com   
 
   

Sunday, July 17, 2016

Surrender






When Life Hits You Hard,
 Reality Comes To Bite You,
 No Distractions Can Make You Happy,
 You Are Not Able To See A Silver Lining Behind A Dark Cloud,
 That's When You Need To Learn...  The Art of Surrendering To The Supreme.    

Many times, we feel our life was not supposed to be the way it is right now.
Maybe, we have made few incorrect choices.
In spite of stretching ourselves to make efforts we aren't able to succeed.
Every ways we move we find a road block ahead.

Probably, we are not able to surrender our innate desire so that the Universe can work on it.

Let us see how we can make the Art of Surrendering easy & simple:


1) Focus On What is Working For You:

 If life/destiny/karmas have made you sacrifice few very "important" aspects of your life - it has sure shot given you few things in life wherein, your soul can take a huge leap in its growth. Figure those things out. Start working on it. Focus on it. Nurture it. Your soul recognizes it...your ego needs to now let go the stubbornness of expecting the returns at any cost.

In Disguise, It will be your Opportunity to Grow out of an Ordinary Life to an Extra - Ordinary Life.

2) Detach:

Divert your energy which goes into Expecting Results ---- (into) Nurturing your Physical - Emotional - Mental - Spiritual Self. Keep high aspirations for yourself. (Ambition might take you to Win - Lose Situation wherein, Aspirations will always be Win - Win Situations). Your aspirations will not only help you grow and reach your potential but will also support others around you to grow and reach their potential.

High Aspirations will always Result in Healing Yourself, Others and has the Potential to Heal the World.

3) Surrender all the Dishonoring of Self:

When you are stuck at life issue - Life throws at you an excellent opportunity to work on your fears, your rigid belief system, to challenge your self - doubt, to be bold enough to create your own path and follow it.

Honor your Soul with Strength to Live a Life of Valor.


4) Forgive Yourself:

Forgive yourself for not able to achieve your desired goals - it does not make you a "loser". This is just your story. This is just your soul's journey. Be proud to have made that effort. Now, Surrender. Forgive Yourself. No sacrifice goes unnoticed by the Universe. No effort goes waste.

Surrender Yourself & Live Life Fully Without Expectations - For the Soul to Reach its Potential.    

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 
www.fudoltherapies.com
+(91) 9869660362
contact@fudoltherapies.com   

Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Earth Angels





When you are in the middle of a tidal wave in your journey of life wherein, you can't see clearly; you are physically, mentally and/or emotionally drain; where just to think straight is a lot of effort, when you are surrounded by dark clouds of anger, sadness, fear; where your closed ones have no clue how to get you out of it - That's when you will always find an Earth Angel suddenly appearing out of no where, stepping ahead of you, holding your hands and guiding you out of that tidal wave, showing you the right direction, being there with you when you break down in your struggle with your dark clouds, when you lose hope of getting out of that tidal wave...Earth Angel would show you what your are capable of achieving.

Earth Angel will give you loads of unconditional love, support, acceptance and understanding till you are strong enough to see the shore clearly.


Do Earth Angels Exists? Yes, Earth Angels are there in each and everyone's life.
When do they enter our life? They enter our life when we go through our life's biggest and toughest challenge.


What is the purpose of Earth Angel? Earth Angel is a person who is like an anchor which our conscious mind holds on to till our soul recovers its strength.
Who are Earth Angels? Earth Angels are like any other human being but, one of their purpose on the earth is to help and support their fellow soul mates/family when they are going through their life's challenges and help them to get on to their spiritual path. A stranger,  a distant relative, a family member whom you don't interact much with suddenly will start talking to you in your struggling times and support you to sail through that tough phase beautifully. 


How to recognize Earth Angels?
Earth Angels are normal human beings. In regular times, they have their weakness like impatience, hot tempered, non listeners - But when they enter your life and see you in the midst of a tidal wave suddenly, one of their purpose of taking birth is invoked which is to take you out of that situation, making them more stronger,  they act out of a nature which they haven't thought they even possessed. Their impatience will vanish while dealing with you, non listeners will turn into listeners, they will regain their capacity to control their anger while you cry and sulk about your struggles, etc. 

Their love for you will be unconditional, the affection they will give you is divine and the way they will take care of you - you will know Universe has send them to you. You will know in your gut that you can blindly rely on them to guide you through that tidal wave.
Just trust your intuition. Risk holding the Earth Angels hand to guide you through your personal tidal wave. You would never be disappointed.


We @FUDOL act as an anchor - till the client regains it's soul power, till the client is again peaceful, till the client uncovers and heals all the bruises he/she encounters in their struggle with their personal tidal wave. 

To further know about us:
DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)

We Do Online & Phone Counseling Session
+(91) 9869660362
www.fudoltherapies.com, contact@fudoltherapies.com   

Sunday, March 20, 2016

Journey of Forgiveness


According to FUDOL, "To FORGIVE means to develop an awareness - that it is useless to hold on grudges towards people who you feel have harmed you in any ways and go beyond your anger, hurt, and pain to an understanding of what exactly compassion or empathy means."
Let me here explain to you with some scenarios:

A] Betrayal: Someone has betrayed you very badly in business or any kind of relationship. Your trust has been broken, you knew, "Something is amiss", "Wish I could have been more vigilant."
Unaware State: You are angry, you are in pain because of that person's action, you curse that person.

Aware State: You empathetically think that maybe that person is so afraid in his life for his survival and must be so insecured from within, which has lead to such actions. Let that incident go and move on.
Maturity Lessons: You will experience the biggest and toughest lesson of your life - to feel compassionate for people who you feel have harmed you. Now, next time along with being trustful you will also be vigilant and work on all the aspects you have been lethargic about.

You Start Taking Charge of Your Life.    

B] Justice: Maybe you are seeking for rights in property (legally) or in a relationship you are begging for your rights to your spouse.
Unaware State: I will fight for it (property), beg for it (relationship), get angry on it, cry about your life being miserable because of that person or situation, etc.

Aware State: You will feel compassionate for that person and say to yourself, "Maybe, he/she does not realize the value of relationships. God Bless him/her. I send him/her a lot of love. Universe will take care of me."       
Maturity Lessons:  You are a much bigger being than a single relationship/property. You have rights on all the things which Universe has to offer. Your purpose in life is maybe different than just staying in that situation and begging for your rights - Let the situation/relationships which does not recognize your worth help you to reach your potential.

Reaching Your Highest and Truest Potential.
C] Ganging Up: You are going through the toughest phase of your life but the people who you consider your family/friends gang up against you - show no empathy, become heartless to your pain, your heartache, become cold to your suffering due to their selfish motives.

Unaware State: You think, speak and behave in a negative way in front of them and when they are not present. Everyday getting disturbed by what they have done, not able to concentrate, and feel irritated.
Aware State: Well, maybe my this set of family/friends are not present positively when I am going through my toughest phase in life. But, there is this another set of family/friends which are standing behind me positively and firmly.

Maturity Lesson: Universe/God will never let me be alone. It isn't necessary that I will receive support and help from close ones that I have supported & helped. But, definitely will be supported/helped by the Universe.

Whenever next I support/help a person - it will be unconditional and with out any expectations.
    
We @FUDOL understand that it is very difficult for most of us to fill the gap from Unaware State to Aware State to reach our Maturity Lessons. That's why we have called it a Journey of Forgiveness. This journey of forgiveness will not be easy - but, it will definitely  be worth it. In this Journey of Forgiveness, FUDOL will always be your support and guide.

Levels which the JOURNEY of FORGIVENESS Workshop will have:

1) Dealing With Emotions
2) Shortcomings
3) Confusions
4)  Awareness
5) Forgiveness
6) Maturity Lessons

Do Join our JOURNEY of FORGIVENESS Workshop if:

You want to go Beyond What has Happened,
           
         You want to Grow in Positive Direction,

                       You want to Find the Purpose of that Situation/Relationship Happening in your Life.  

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 
www.fudoltherapies.com
+(91) 9869660362
contact@fudoltherapies.com