Becoming a puppet of an influenced person will not allow
your mind to grow...
A puppet is someone who blindly follows a person, an idea, a
theory without thinking whether what that person says is applicable to his
life. Whether an idea or what a theory says, is it helping him in his life path?
How many of us follow our parent, our teachers, our gurus,
or an influenced person blindly. How many of us question them ... what they say
is right or wrong? How many of us listen to them, analyze what they are saying and
then decide whether it’s right for us? How many of us after initial analysis
just blindly follow that person and make them our GOD?
You follow your Parent, you obey them blindly.... And many
parents insist on doing that.... Please, it’s starts with the parent... don’t
influence your child’s mind...don’t control your child’s mind...encourage his
asking questions, questioning your way of working, your thought process rather
than insisting that because you are an adult they have to follow you blindly. Let
them develop their natural self. If a parent do not control their controlling behaviour
towards the child...that particular child will always be below his mental age,
he will not only have a fear towards authority his whole life...but, will be
dysfunction in a lot of areas of life (mentally). Parents please don’t make
your child your puppet because of your EGO, your fear of losing control of over
your Child, your protectiveness towards your child, your fear that if your
child is out of your control he will not take care of you in the future
(basically, implies in Indian culture). Trust me, make them independent
mentally, physically and financially and your child will not only take care of
you in the future but also, thank you for making him a person who has his own
mind, who can call a spade a spade without fearing, who can stand on his two
feet proudly and can face himself in the mirror.
Let him fail as many times as he should to learn the lessons of life. Yes, educate the child about the consequence of a particular action but, don’t
suppress them. Let them solve their own problems and issues of life...be a
support system not their problem solver, let them find their own solutions.
Come out of the clutches of becoming influenced by any influential
person... stop being a puppet and getting used by people who are only using you
because they crave more power over others and because it satisfies their Ego.
Has it ever happen with you... the person you followed in spite of your instincts not agreeing to it and that
person changes his stance whenever it is convenient for him? Have the
idea/theory you were following but were not convinced about it but still
following it, suddenly became obsolete? And you wished....Why didn’t I follow my
Gut Instinct, my Intuition, What I wanted to follow?
Remove that fear of Obedience, fear of always pleasing
others, and always looking good in society’s eyes... Once, follow your heart, be
yourself ... people will appreciate you and you will do some great service to
the society... As...
Originality can truly create new things in Society...
Following Your Own Path And Not Someone Else’s...Will
Rejuvenate Human Compassion and Love.
DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online.
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Well written, Darsha. :)
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