According to FUDOL, "To FORGIVE means to develop an
awareness - that it is useless to hold on grudges towards people who you feel
have harmed you in any ways and go beyond your anger, hurt, and pain to an
understanding of what exactly compassion or empathy means."
Let me here explain to you with some scenarios:
A] Betrayal: Someone
has betrayed you very badly in business or any kind of relationship. Your trust
has been broken, you knew, "Something is amiss", "Wish I could
have been more vigilant."
Unaware State:
You are angry, you are in pain because of that person's action, you curse that
person.
Aware State: You empathetically
think that maybe that person is so afraid in his life for his survival and must
be so insecured from within, which has lead to such actions. Let that incident
go and move on.
Maturity Lessons: You
will experience the biggest and toughest lesson of your life - to feel
compassionate for people who you feel have harmed you. Now, next time along
with being trustful you will also be vigilant and work on all the aspects you
have been lethargic about.
You Start Taking
Charge of Your Life.
B] Justice: Maybe
you are seeking for rights in property (legally) or in a relationship you are
begging for your rights to your spouse.
Unaware State: I
will fight for it (property), beg for it (relationship), get angry on it, cry
about your life being miserable because of that person or situation, etc.
Aware State: You
will feel compassionate for that person and say to yourself, "Maybe, he/she
does not realize the value of relationships. God Bless him/her. I send him/her a lot of love. Universe will
take care of me."
Maturity Lessons: You
are a much bigger being than a single relationship/property. You have rights on
all the things which Universe has to offer. Your purpose in life is maybe
different than just staying in that situation and begging for your rights - Let
the situation/relationships which does not recognize your worth help you to
reach your potential.
Reaching Your Highest
and Truest Potential.
C] Ganging Up: You
are going through the toughest phase of your life but the people who you
consider your family/friends gang up against you - show no empathy, become
heartless to your pain, your heartache, become cold to your suffering due to
their selfish motives.
Unaware State:
You think, speak and behave in a negative way in front of them and when
they are not present. Everyday getting disturbed by what they have done, not
able to concentrate, and feel irritated.
Aware State:
Well, maybe my this set of family/friends are not present positively when I am
going through my toughest phase in life. But, there is this another set of
family/friends which are standing behind me positively and firmly.
Maturity Lesson:
Universe/God will never let me be alone.
It isn't necessary that I will receive support and help from close ones that I
have supported & helped. But, definitely will be supported/helped by the
Universe.
Whenever next I
support/help a person - it will be unconditional and with out any expectations.
Levels which the JOURNEY of FORGIVENESS Workshop will
have:
1) Dealing With Emotions
2) Shortcomings3) Confusions
4) Awareness
5) Forgiveness
6) Maturity Lessons
Do Join our JOURNEY
of FORGIVENESS Workshop if:
You want to go Beyond
What has Happened,
You want to Grow in Positive Direction,
You want to Find the
Purpose of that Situation/Relationship Happening in your Life.
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online.
www.fudoltherapies.com
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