According to FUDOL Therapies,
“Concreteness is that strength in your character which makes
you reliable person and a strong person in your eyes as well as other’s eyes.”
Here, character means the aura you emanate, the trust you
generate in other person and the ability to confidently stand by your
relationships in all areas of life (relationship with your family, friends,
relatives, colleagues, relationship with your work and relationship with your
soul).
If you already have that kind of concreteness no need to
read any further.
Let’s see the main ingredient on how do we develop
concreteness:
The main and basic ingredient to develop concreteness is to:
Stop Playing Mind Games With Others / Stop
Manipulating Others.
For example:
A) In a marriage, if you have done a lot of harm to
your spouse in some way or the other. But, rather than accepting your mistakes
when you come in your senses ... you keep finding faults and play mind games
with that person so that the blame shifts from you to your spouse.
B) In your work area, since you want that promotion badly
you manipulate the boss to not give promotion to the more deserving colleague of yours just because you need it. In the desperation, you tend to take the
other person’s credit and eventually get a promotion.
C) Just because your need to control others is very highly
(you are aware of it) rather than doing something about it within yourself, you
see to it that you make other people’s life miserable. You become so blind in
your quest to control others and the situation that you in the end either start
losing your relationships or harming them in big way.
D) When someone comes to you for help and if it would require
courage to help that person as your interest might go for a toss. Though, you agree
to help but, afterwards you turn the situation against the person who has asked for your help so that your interest is served.
E) You are good in your work but, you start lazing around
and start finding short cuts so that you can laze around, you are not sincere
about your work and find ‘n’ number of excuses to not do your work properly or reach
your potential. Right from “I don’t have to time” to “Procrastination” ...one
has all the excuses.
Above are the few examples which will definitely make your
character very weak and your auric field will sooner or later reflect it to
others.
You cannot cheat the Universe. You can lie to others and
yourself for sometimes but, not for long. People might not express it to you
but, they will definitely feel it in your auric field.
Manipulation, Putting the blaming on others just to save
yourself, being insincere in your work,etc.etc. --- You would say all these things are required
to survive in the world.
These are the things which might look thrilling in
short term but has a very harmful effect not only to your character but also, on your soul.
The minute you don’t accept your fault, the minute you start
thinking about a lose – win situation, you are no more growing within yourself,
you are no more learning things from your problems which universe has given you
and you refute its purpose. You would no longer stand by your words, your
actions become weaker as you are going against your conscience, your soul’s
purpose. Thus, affecting your confidence level big time.
Remember,
Be courageous. If you don’t harm others in any ways,
Universe will take care of you, it will throw ample of opportunities, you will
grow and learn things, it will open lot of doors.
Take a Commitment only if you can Fulfil it, Give your Word
only if you can Stand by it, Help others with a Pure Heart and Unconditionally.
More straight forward you are (here, I don’t mean Be Rude) – More you will be able to stand up for what you believe - More you will be honest to yourself - More pure your heart will be – More you will
be clear about your thoughts – More your personality will evolve - More you
would be yourself – More peacefully you would sleep – More firmly you will
stand on your words – More strength your actions would have – More reliable and
trustful people will find you – More you will develop that inner strength -
More Concreteness (Strength) you will give your character.
You want to gain back concreteness in your self... we @
FUDOL Therapies will be willing to help you and support you with concreteness.
DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online.
www.fudoltherapies.com
+(91) 9869660362, contact@fudoltherapies.com 
