You are in your worse times and suddenly you find people around
you start disappearing...
Usually, you are surrounded by people... but when the time
comes to show their love for you... they become your "cousin", they become your “not
so good friend”, etc. etc.
Have You Been Banking On Wrong People?
Never ever trust people who are afraid of society... they
will never be able to stay with you in your bad times. They will never be able
to give you the right advice in regards to your growth. They will never be able
to be your rock in your worse times as their fear of society is so high. As their
need to look good in society and in others eyes is so important that... they
will not even be aware of how unconsciously they hurt you in your worse
times. How they will manipulate the situation, how they become inhuman, how
they forget the relationship you shared with them, how you cease to exist when
their social status is at stake, their fear of society consumes them so much
that they don’t even acknowledge that the worse times of yours might be because
you sacrificed for them.
If you want to have reliable people in your worse times then
have the courage to have people who care a penny about society, who have the
courage to break the rules of society and form their own, who have the courage
to tell a spade a spade, who in spite of social repercussion can tell you what’s
good for your soul’s growth then what will look good in social setting.
In your good times ... these society fearing people will be
the ones around you...don’t get carried away by their artificial attachments as
when it will be their turn to show their metal’s worth ... they will say
statements like, “we were never that close”, “ohho, you aren’t the same person
I knew”, “you shouldn’t do a particular thing or behave in a particular manner”
– (because it spoils their social image).
Only a person who loves himself and understands God’s way
can give you right advice in catch 22 situation of your life and worse times of
your life – Trust them... Have more of these kind of people around you in your
all the times as they are the best people not only in your good times but also
in your bad times.
They have strong character to not only tell you where you
going wrong but also stand besides you when you might have to do things which
are not approved by the society. They will only judge your act purely on the
basis of your soul’s requirement at that time and your soul’s growth. They can
be blunt, rude, will love you and accept you fully. “selfish” and “self – centered” in society fearing people’s eyes, sometimes
anti – social, rebel... but, much more reliable then people who are sweet,
diplomatic, makes you feel good by false appreciation, and are society fearing –
Be Aware.
Having said that... pity people who are society fearing than
blaming them... as they are consumed by fear... they need our compassion and
not hatred.
Need support based on your soul’s growth ... not on the
basis of any kind of fear... contact us on fillupthedashesoflife@gmail.com
DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online.
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online.
www.fudoltherapies.com
+(91) 9869660362, contact@fudoltherapies.com 
