Bring It On!!!

For Some People life’s challenges are because of their past karma’s;

For Some People life’s challenges are the way their life (destiny) is written;

For Some people life’s challenges are because of what others have done and not done for them;

FUDOL Therapies say,

When Life can’t stop throwing challenges at you...

            You roll up your selves, with a Big Laugh, Tell Life to:   BRING IT ON...

             

None of the “me victim” attitude will help you to solve the problem +

This attitude will make you vulnerable and make you susceptible to lot of low life activity +

You won’t Enjoy & Learn & Grow from solving the challenges life is throwing at you +

Rather than developing more vitality & energy in you, you would start growing old because of that attitude.

Yes... No denying you will sometimes pity yourself, have regrets, cry, become sad, get angry at self and others, etc. all these emotions are fine... we are humans. But, let’s not blame destiny, unfairness of God towards you, your past karmas... Enjoy your life and its challenges with a big laugh.

Many times there are challenges on all the front...

Many times you will not see any way out...

Those are the times you need to hang on, see your positives, analyze what are those few things that are working for you and make those your strengths and hold on to it.

You want to get depressed, give up, shout, be alone – do all of these things but not more than 2 days... Again, gain strength and keep the Bring It On Attitude. It’s a contest between You and Life...More you will face it with courage, the more Life has to take a step back n give you what you deserve.

Bring It On Attitude is the ‘in attitude’ this season in FUDOL Therapies – need help to develop that attitude...you know where to fix up an appointment.

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta

(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)

We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 

www.fudoltherapies.com

+(91) 986966036, contact@fudoltherapies.com   

Have You Been Banking On Wrong People?

You are in your worse times and suddenly you find people around you start disappearing...

Usually, you are surrounded by people... but when the time comes to show their love for you... they become your "cousin", they become your “not so good friend”, etc. etc.

Have You Been Banking On Wrong People?

Never ever trust people who are afraid of society... they will never be able to stay with you in your bad times. They will never be able to give you the right advice in regards to your growth. They will never be able to be your rock in your worse times as their fear of society is so high. As their need to look good in society and in others eyes is so important that... they will not even be aware of how unconsciously they hurt you in your worse times. How they will manipulate the situation, how they become inhuman, how they forget the relationship you shared with them, how you cease to exist when their social status is at stake, their fear of society consumes them so much that they don’t even acknowledge that the worse times of yours might be because you sacrificed for them. 

If you want to have reliable people in your worse times then have the courage to have people who care a penny about society, who have the courage to break the rules of society and form their own, who have the courage to tell a spade a spade, who in spite of social repercussion can tell you what’s good for your soul’s growth then what will look good in social setting.

In your good times ... these society fearing people will be the ones around you...don’t get carried away by their artificial attachments as when it will be their turn to show their metal’s worth ... they will say statements like, “we were never that close”, “ohho, you aren’t the same person I knew”, “you shouldn’t do a particular thing or behave in a particular manner” – (because it spoils their social image).

Only a person who loves himself and understands God’s way can give you right advice in catch 22 situation of your life and worse times of your life – Trust them... Have more of these kind of people around you in your all the times as they are the best people not only in your good times but also in your bad times.

They have strong character to not only tell you where you going wrong but also stand besides you when you might have to do things which are not approved by the society. They will only judge your act purely on the basis of your soul’s requirement at that time and your soul’s growth. They can be blunt, rude, will love you and accept you fully. “selfish” and “self – centered”  in society fearing people’s eyes, sometimes anti – social, rebel... but, much more reliable then people who are sweet, diplomatic, makes you feel good by false appreciation, and are society fearing – Be Aware.

Having said that... pity people who are society fearing than blaming them... as they are consumed by fear... they need our compassion and not hatred.

Need support based on your soul’s growth ... not on the basis of any kind of fear... contact us on fillupthedashesoflife@gmail.com

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta

(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)
We also do Counseling via. Phone, & Online. 

www.fudoltherapies.com

+(91) 9869660362, contact@fudoltherapies.com   

Get Healed /Heal Yourself

Many times when Life’s challenges become unbearable and you aren't able to see any silver lining at the end of the tunnel  – the challenge is giving you a lot of pain, lot of heart ache, when you think, you haven't been treated with 'JUST' by life, society, closed ones and yourself.

When you have been facing Heart Aches like – 
Abuse (physical, emotional, mental); 
Unhappy Marriage; 
Suicide by Loved One; 
Addiction of Substance; 
Not Been Able to Have A Child; 
Born Orphan; 
Losing Loved Ones; etc.

There is a lot of Anger shimmering, Life has become a mess, There is a lot of bitterness, sometimes you don’t know on whom. 

You think if you don’t become a parent – it’s the end of the world; 
You want to die of guilt because your close ones took his/her own life; 
You lose sight of what is the future of your life as you make the addicted substance your life; 
You feel permanently damaged by the abuse you have met with; 
You don’t know how would you live without your close ones; You feel you will never be able learn to love as you have never had the biggest form of love i.e  Parental Love. 
And many more such heart aches...

Your tears do not stop seeing people around you have situations/people for which your heart aches. 
Your heart aches with emotional pain - which is equally unbearable. 
You feel out of place where ever you go – you feel you don’t fit in.
You don’t have any normal conversation to talk to. 
You feel lost in your heart. 
You snap at anyone who remotely also tires to stand by you. You feel life has no value. 
You don’t know whether you can anytime overcome this tremendous pain – STOP Yourself From This Thoughts.

You need to Heal Yourself from these Heart ache, from the pain. 

Only way you can heal yourself from these Heart Ache is by GIVING. I know it’s very difficult to give when you yourself feel empty...But, START GIVING.

Give a lot of love to children without parent, 
Become a parent to an orphan, 
Stop youngsters in getting into any form of addiction, 
Counsel young couples who are getting into marriage, Volunteer for suicide helpline, 
Have the courage to get close to someone else. 

No counselor can counsel on these issues, as much as the person who has gone through the problem.

Basically, GIVE in the challenges of life where you have pain rather than running away from that issue. 
Agree, it is difficult but, that’s the way to HEAL any Heart Ache. 
No amount of diversion in the form of work, other social cause might heal you fully.

Get Back Your Lost Inner Love (Inner Confidence)

Get Back Your Lost Light (Inner Creative, Faith in Yourself)

Get Back Your Lost Laughter (Inner Happiness, Fun)

No Situation, No Problems are bigger than your Inner Love! Light! Laughter!

You Know Where to contact us if you want to heal your Heart Aches.

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta

(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Colour & Aura Therapist, Past Life Regression Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)

we also do Online & Phone Counseling. To know more visit us:  
www.fudoltherapies.com; 
+(91) 9869660362, contact@fudoltherapies.com

   

   

Justice

Fight against Injustice for the Greater Good of the Society,

Fight for the Bigger Truth then only for your own Truths,

Fight for the overall Progress of the Society then only for your Progress.

Injustice are of 2 types: One done by God/Universe and Second done by living beings to each other.

When some injustice happens to us instead of forgiving the person who has incurred that injustice we keep living in the anger of that injustice. When we are not forgiving for the injustice done to us – the anger, hatred, pain and hurt consumes us and in turn destroys us. This vindictive behaviour rather than harming the person who has done injustice to us would in turn harm us in a big way.

Once you forgive that person ... you release all the anger, hurt, and pain out of your psyche.

By forgiving the person who has done the injustice ...I don’t mean that you tolerate the injustice being done. NO ... the person who tolerates injustice is a bigger sinner then the person who does it.

The released energy gives you the strength to make yourselves strong. Forgiveness will help you release the energy of negative emotions (pain, hurt, anger, etc.) which in turn will strengthen your inner power to fight against the injustice done not only to you but also the injustice done to others in a more constructive way.

Releasing negative energy through Forgiveness will also prevent you to pass on the injustice done to you to others unconsciously. It will help you to fight, out of the place of love, for yourselves, and good of our society rather than out of ego and revenge.

Forgiveness will help you, not to develop vindictive behaviour in your aura and positively find solutions to such injustice through constructive ways and look for solutions from a broad perspective.

Following are the things you could do when such injustice happens with you and you are left with negative emotions like anger, hatred, fear, etc.: 

a) Remove the negative emotions and feelings like, “Why Me?”; “Poor Me”; “It’s My Karmas”; “I might have done something bad”; etc. Take help of a counsellor, a friend or a trusted one. Accept the situation. 

b) There are chances you might get low on self – confidence, self – love, self – esteem. So start giving yourselves special attention. 

c) In this phase, one should be away from people whom you think have always been criticizing you, would put you down at every opportunity. Instead, be with people who will help you smile, laugh and be positive force in your life. It’s a MUST. 

d) Once you have build your strength back, once your negative thoughts stop over – powering you – take action against the injustice done to you – not by taking any revenge but, by finding a way out of the injustice not only for you but also for others. Fight if you have to, but for the greater good.

Revenge and Vindictive Behaviour towards the person who have harmed us is never the correct way to get justice – one would always end up feeling like a loser.

Forgiveness, Positivity and Loving Behaviour towards the person and towards the “Injustice Issue” would make you not only the winner but also, would make you strong and more capable to fight negativity inside you.

Need help to reach that stage of forgiveness ...Contact us @FUDOL Therapies.

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, Past Life Regression Therapist; Colour & Aura Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)

We Do Online & Phone Counselling Sessions

www.fudoltherapies.com

+(91) 9869660362; contact@fudoltherapies.com

Miracles

Miracles Happen when you give energy to your dreams then your fears

Many people feel miracles, magic happens only in fairy tales.

I Believe,

Miracles happen when you are your best friend.

Miracles happen when you trust that if God has given you a dream – God has also given you the potential/resources to fulfill those dreams.

One just needs to believe in oneself.

One just needs to put the self doubt instilled by oneself and society in our heart aside – look from the inner child’s perspective for whom everything is possible.

One just needs to trust the nature again...what the nature is telling you instead of trusting anything that is artificial. For Ex: if a couple is not able to have a child – listen to the nature/intuition...it might tell you to do few things. Many times these things might not be irrelevant to child planning, many times it might be the toughest thing one must have done, many times you need to complete few incomplete things in your life to actually be ready to welcome a child in your life.

You have a dream project/dream work – listen to your intuition. For ex: You have a dream to have a factory – your intuition is asking you to talk to a person – it may not always be that it will give you a solution but, it will definitely start a chain reaction so that you can reach your destination.

Listen to your Gut Instinct, Intuition, Subconscious... Always Trust Yourself, Nature, and God... Develop Courage to follow them – it will always have all solutions to your problems.  

Most of the times,

Universe is just waiting for you to gather that courage – to take your first step towards your dreams so that it can assist you with the rest 99 steps.

Universe is just waiting for you to be aware that the Ego, Complexes you have is not what you are...to assist you to a path of laughter.

Universe is just waiting for you to just dissolve your anger, destructive and negative energies so that it can assist you with re – learning to love yourself and others.

Universe is just waiting for you to realize the real way to worship a GOD, the real reason for any religion – so that it can assist you to find light – to find GOD within yourself.

Universe is just waiting for you to face your fears and give all your energies to your dreams so that it can assist you in the fulfillment of your dreams.

You want assistance in experience life full of Miracles...do contact us @FUDOL Therapies

DARSHA Gandhi Mehta
(Psychotherapist & Counsellor, Hypnotherapist, Past Life Regression Therapist; Colour & Aura Therapist, Graphologist, Angel & Crystal Advisor)

We Do Online & Phone Counselling Sessions

www.fudoltherapies.com

+(91) 9869660362; contact@fudoltherapies.com